Even the smallest Lie, causes great Pain..

Trust is one of the most important thing that a person could hold so that their relationship would be strong. This is very essential to a relationship, because through trust, one is able to give their partner their freedom (as i have mentioned in my past blog of what freedom means) without getting paranoid whether their partner is cheating or not.

But what about white lies? Yes, i know what that is, and i know, that there are lots of temptations wherein we decide to lie just for the sake that we could avoid someone getting hurt. The things is, have we really thought about how the other person might feel about the situation? That maybe we just lied for ourselves in order not to get caught or to not be put in a situation that is hard for us to solve? That what if we put ourselves on the other person's shoes? How would we feel if we are being lied to? Especially having been lied from the person whom you love the most. Having to lie is a decision wherein you know, whether its for the greater of you two, or just for the better of you.

There are moments in my life that I'd rather choose to not know the truth, because truth hurts, and sometimes, it hurts too much that we can't barely take it all. On those moments where i have been hurt so much, there's this part of me hoping that I shouldn't have known it at all, but a part of me, tells me that this is better.. to know the truth.. coz knowing the truth, even though it hurts, teaches us a lot of lessons. It molds us to be strong, stronger than we thought we could be. Those truth makes us realize and understand, that the world is not perfect.

to all those who are hurt, i hope this song could inspire you to be stronger. it's "everyime you lie" by demi lovato :)  Demi Lovato - Everytime You Lie

And if you're on the position that you're the one who's lying, then if you're sincerely sorry, now's the time for you to make a way to let the other person know that you really are sorry. You have to be able to be there for them, knowing that you're the reason why they're hurting so much.

You would never know how painful it could be, how painful being lied to could be, if you haven't really experienced it. And i guess, we all, have tried to be lied on to. So... a piece of advice, the next time you try to lie.. think about it. Think about the person you're going to lie to. Think about how you would feel if you were them. Then, choose the right choice.

I love the way how He Loves Me

Like what Rihanna said, "you make me feel, like i'm the only girl in the world". :)

Love. Love. Love. It's the best and worst thing in the world. Best when you both are up, and worst, of course, when you both are down. But you know what, worst moments are nothing if you both make each other feel, that even in your lowest moments, you still love each other so much. It's like loving someone even if you are already in that particular situation wherein you'd almost want to throw things at each other. (laughs)

This blog, is especially for that one person.. that person who makes my life complete. That person who, despite my kamalditahan, still loves me very much.

I LOVE YOU.

I love the way how you make feel like i'm the only girl in the world. :)) Seriously, i love the way how you love me. Even in the simplest ways. Maybe you did not noticed, or maybe sometimes i forget to tell you how grateful I am because of you, but I want you to know, that even in the smallest details, I appreciate everything that you do. Maybe there are just moments in my life, that I feel so down and i'm wishing that its your turn to tell me how grateful you are because of me.

It may seem to you that what I always say are just pure problems, but honestly, deep inside my heart, behind all these trials, I still see how you love me in the best way that you can.

I love it when you're the first person I talk to when I wake up, and the last person who'd kiss me to sleep (even just on the phone). I love it when i read your sweet messages every time i open my eyes. I love how you make me feel better when i'm down even if you didn't intend to. I love how you touch my head every time I sleep on your chest. I love you when you tell me you're sorry and there's always that, "I hope you still love me" messages every after fight. And the best of all, I love it when you tell me you love me. Those three-letter words that I hear from you every single day. 

There are lots of trials to come babe. But I hope, that despite all these things, we'd together be positive about us. I hope, that no matter how angry we become, we'd still let our love remain on top of these all. These are just struggles to test our relationship, and it's up to us to make our decisions and choices. I know we'll choose.. to be strong.

Remember, our love will keep us together! I love you.

YOU. :)

You are the angel that God sent from above

to captivate my soul and warm my heart

You are my path that guides me to the right way

and us two roads that will never part

Yours are my memories, my thoughts,

that I won’t forget

the laughter, joy, sadness and pain

that this lucky and pathetic heart won’t regret

You are the sweet melody that inspires me

the music that serenades me

deep down in my very soul

You are the cool breeze that froze me

the pieces of puzzles that fits me best

You are the steps that I take everyday

The wings that carried me all throughout the way 

You gave me eyes to see the beauty of the world

ears, to hear the true sound of the beating of my heart

You are the reason that I live that makes sense

the colors that make my life more beautiful

You’re the one that completes me

the prince that swept me off my feet

you are my laughter, my happiness,

you are my life

You… are my everything…

haha i found this on my friendster's blog. yes, i wrote it a few years ago. a little bit corny, but i think its sweet. :) <3

If You Love Him, Set Him Free

"If you love him, set him free. If he comes back to you, then you're meant to be."

Easy to say. Hard to do. Right? That is normally what people say about testing the strength of a relationship. Even I found this cliche to be such a terrible thing to do because we girls/women (depending on age and level of maturity) have lots of fears in our own relationships.

We fear we might lose the person we love if we let go of them. We fear that in just a little span of time that we have given them their freedom, they might find someone else, someone better.. But what we forgot to understand, is what really letting go means..

Letting go does not mean we are giving that person the right to date or find someone else, it does not mean we are giving them the right to have their lives without us being a part of it. What really letting go means is that we are giving them the freedom to grow up..to mature as an individual.. to be a full grown up.. and to realize what their worth is, and what's your worth to them. I have read a book from Michelle McKinney Hammond, entitled, "What To Do Until Love Finds You" and she pointed out in one of her views that if you love some, set him free; if people are meant to be in our lives, they will return of their own volition.

   

Freedom is an important ingredient in a relationship's success. Not only it gives us the time for ourselves, but it also makes us realize and understand the things in our lives that, sometimes, we alone could only do. Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean giving all your time to that person, making him the center of our life and doing everything according to what we have planned. If he really is into you and he really does love you, then for sure he's the man who knows his limitations from the freedom that you gave him and a true man would not risk losing such a wonderful woman like you who has the heart of a true woman who knows how to give her man his time for himself, a time that would help the both of you grow in love.

Love is all I Need.

Loving a person who loves you back, is the best thing in the world. It feels like you could surpass every trial, enjoy life in every second of it, see the meaning of things even in its simplest ways, and be the luckiest person in the world.

Every relationship has its own flaws. And in every relationship, has its own tough situations to handle. But what about if the problem.. is that the person whom you love.. can't fight for you and your relationship?

Its hurts to know that you're not the most important person in the world. It hurts because no matter what you do, you're still not their priority. And what hurts even more, is that even if they know that they're hurting you too much, they still wont and cant make you feel that every pain is worth it. And yet, even if you feel all this pain, you still love..no matter how stupid you become.. no matter how hard it gets.. and no matter how painful it could be.

Even if we could still see things clearly as how they seem it is, there are still tons of things that no matter what we do, we would not understand. There are lots of things that you hope you could hear from them. There are lots of questions that you want them to answer, even if you already know what it is.. and how painful these answers could be.

There's always a part of you that hopes.. that somewhere along those words that they utter, you'll find that one simple word that would make you strong. That would make you know that every pain is worth it, that every risk is worth taking, and that every tear is worth having.

No matter what happens, you continue to love. You continue to fight for what you know is right in the end. You continue to get hurt, believing and knowing that everything will fall to its right place at the right time.  And still, you continue to love.. even if they make you feel that you're the only one who's fighting to make this right. :(